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Is Your Spouse A Cyber Cheater?

Thursday, May 29th, 2008

By Tim Denio What if you found out that your spouse is engaging in acyber relationship - should you feel you are being cheatedon? Well it depends. If your partner is just engaging incyber sex, it usually is just sexual desires and fantasiesthey are living through a virtual world. While that may still concern you, it is not really somethingconcrete enough to feel like you’re on the receiving end ofan affair. On the other hand if your spouse is getting emotionallyattached with the person he or she is chatting with…thenit certainly can be called an affair. But then it brings about the never ending debate of whatneeds to happen for something to be called an affair. Thefact is most of us relate to infidelity only by the physicalacts being engaged in. However, most affairs do not materialize out of lust foranother, but because of the unfulfilled emotional needs weall have. So with that in mind, it is really up to you to first defineclearly in your own mind what you consider to be cheating. One of the questions asked is how can someone get soemotionally involved with another without being able to seeor hear them? While the complexity of the deeper humanpsychology is beyond the scope of this article, I can throwsome light on this matter with a simple insight. Two of the biggest reasons are that the usual social hurdlesof slowly getting to know one another that happens in thephysical world, are virtually eradicated. You can jumpstraight in to your inner thoughts and desires, while youhide behind a sense of anonymity. And secondly, because there is a sense of adventure andmystery in this very new way of connecting with others. While some may laugh off the whole notion that a cyberrelationship can be classed as an affair, the hundreds ofpeople who have fallen in love would disagree. Tim Denio has helped hundreds of men and women learn to discover the truth about infidelity in their relationship. To learn how to stop being suspicious about your spouse and find out the truth visit his blog to discover what you can do to ease your pain during this difficult time, at http://bustedcheater.blogspot.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tim_Denio http://EzineArticles.com/?Is-Your-Spouse-A-Cyber-Cheater?&id=373240 payday lloans pay day loans in daly city no fax payday cash advance fast cash online

Gnosis: The Secret of Solomon’s Temple Revealed

Monday, May 26th, 2008

By Philip Gardiner All of this is perfectly natural. We are, after all, apes with less hair. We strive to be the alpha male and female; to fit in with the society or tribe that surrounds us. And often that society is just a larger version of our selves; it is created by groups of selves. But, in the times gone by, our ancestors saw through all of this and recognized that there was another way. They discovered that in-order for man to elevate himself above the level of the grind-stone, he needed to alter his internal dialogue. Man needed to understand himself and the forces that drive him. This unique understanding - that there could be a higher goal for mankind, whether collectively or individually - evolved into what we now know as Gnosticism. Of course this is a massive oversimplification and we should always take into account the mystics those who have experienced what we would call other-worldly emotions or visions. Also, regardless of popular perception, the Christians were not the only Gnostics and mystics. Gnostic comes from the Greek word gignoskein meaning simply to know. It was applied to one sect of so-called philosophers in the first ages of Christianity. However, the term is now being used more loosely and I personally see the term slightly differently to others and probably in a controversial light. To me the Greek term implies all-knowledge. This is a kind of knowledge gained much like plugging ones mind into the world wide web and being able to download every single piece of data in an instant. In the same way, the true Gnostic, much like the mystic, could understand all things in a unique way. Whether this is the mind tapping into the collective unconscious, the Akashic records, or any other name given to the process, does not matter for the purpose of this article, the fact remains, it was believed. And because of this belief, physical manifestations of the internal belief system emerged the world over. In this way, the temples of man, were exactly that Temples of Man. Gnosis then, means knowledge of the most esoteric kind and this is the story that has been hidden from our eyes for too long. This is the truth of the secret societies that we on the outside are supposedly too worldly to comprehend. The Temple So, let us now try our best to comprehend the Temple of Solomon and in doing so, let us walk upon Holy ground, trodden only by the initiated. In the years of my own searching there were times when I would be found at the feet of the Magi, sitting and listening to the wise words of the Sufi, joining in the debate at some Freemasonic Lodge. All the time I was learning and viewing the process with an open ear and an open eye, and yet also balancing it all with the knowledge of modern day science and reductionism. Both worlds, the one of the esoteric and the one of science are useless apart both are needed today if we are to truly understand and believe. And so down to facts about the Temple of Solomon. Well, unfortunately we are sadly lacking in any archaeological evidence, regardless of what you read on some literal fundamentalist website. What we are told is that in the 10th century BC, the wise King Solomon erected a great Temple to the Lord. Unfortunately, if any of this is true, then we actually find that it was a Temple, which encompassed many pagan religions. According to Professor James Pritchard in his book, Solomon and Sheba (1974, p.35): .. the so-called cities of Megiddo, Gezer and Hazor, and Jerusalem itself were in reality more like villages.. Within were relatively small public buildings and poorly constructed dwellings with clay floors. The objects reveal a material culture which, even by the standards of the ancient Near East, could not be judged sophisticated or luxurious.. The magnificence of the age of Solomon is parochial and decidedly lackluster, but the first book of Kings implies exactly the opposite. In fact and in the bright light of day, what we actually have, and what most writers are afraid to say, is no evidence whatsoever for Solomons Temple. In fact, we have no evidence for Solomon, other than these peculiar Biblical texts. Neither do we have any evidence for the Queen of Sheba, or any of the other characters involved. Instead, there is more depth than could ever be imagined, more meaning than we would dare to believe. John Michell in The Temple at Jerusalem: A Revelation, (Gothic Image) gives us an insight to the real meaning.: Legends of the Temple describe it as the instrument of a mystical, priestly science, a form of alchemy by which oppositely charged elements in the earth and atmosphere were brought together and ritually married. The product of their union was a spirit that blessed and sanctified the people of Israel. How right Michell is. The Temple is an instrument of mystical and priestly science or even magic. The secret unravels before our eyes the more we learn. You see the true Gnostic, the true disciple or perfect one, must be a man or woman of balance. He or she must unite the two sides of the mind, the male and female principles as they are called. We are all both male and female and the alchemists used this concept of balance and revealed it in their images of the Hermaphrodite, half man and half woman. Solomon, was no real man, and Sheba was no real woman. Instead they were symbols of this internal and often external process. The whole story of Solomon, Sheba and the Temple, which is the perfectly formed body, both physical and spiritual, is the story of our own psyche. It is an esoteric truth, misunderstood in its exoteric form. Hiram Hiram was the son of a Jewish mother and a Phoenician father and is credited with the decoration of the Temple of Solomon. He was said to have been the son of a widow of the tribe of Naphtali He cast two bronze pillars 1 Kings 7:13-15. We must also note something of interest mentioned in 1 Kings 16: Then he made two capitals of cast bronze, to set on top of the pillars. The height of one capital was 5 cubits; and the height of the other capital was five cubits. He made a lattice network, with wreaths of chainwork, for the capitals which were on top of the pillars: seven chains for one capital and seven for the other capital. These pillars became known as Jachin, meaning he establishes and Boaz, which means in him is strength and these are now familiar to most modern Freemasons as central to their own Lodge or Temple. Copies of these can be clearly seen at the infamous Rosslyn Chapel as we shall discover. But, what is interesting here is the original text about these pillars. Firstly bronze is used for the capitals, just as bronze is used for the Brazen Serpent of Moses and is indicative of the fiery aspect of the serpent as one of the channels in the Kundalini process. Their heights were 5 cubits, matching the five hooded cobras seen across India and atop many pillars, although the Bible calls them Lilies, which are symbols of balance anyway. Leading up to these capitals then were wreaths of chainwork, seven on each pillar. Strangely these chains were for the capitals, and so we conclude that these seven levelled chains (coils) were pointing towards the head (capital) just as the serpents of the Kundalini do. There are more real links between Hiram and the serpent. For instance, we noted above that he was of the Tribe of Naphtali. The standard of the Tribe of Naphtali, according to Jewish tradition, is a serpent or basilisk and this could have come from Egyptian origins, as Jewish tradition states that Naphtali was the brother of Joseph, chosen to represent the family to Pharaoh. And now I have sent a skillful man, endowed with understanding, Huram [Hiram] my master [father] craftsman, (the son of a woman of the daughters of Dan, and his father was a man of Tyre), skilled to work in gold and silver, bronze and iron, stone and wood, purple and blue, fine linen and crimson, and to make any engraving and to accomplish any plan which may be given to him, with your skilful men and with the skilful men of my lord David your father. 2 Chronicles 2:13-14. Here, Hiram is said to be a son of the Tribe of Dan and even the tribe of Dan had an emblem, which was amazingly also the serpent, this time with a horse. Incredibly there is also a hidden truth and repetitive pattern in this little statement about the real skills of this literary character. Follow this pattern: Hiram is skilled in:- 1 gold and silver, 2 bronze and iron, 3 stone and wood, 4 purple and blue, 5 fine linen and crimson, 6 and to make any engraving 7 and to accomplish any plan which may be given to him. Note that there are seven balanced elements to the skill of the man who will build the Temple! This is a real clue to the Temples secret indeed. According to this book of Chronicles Hiram was a cunning man (a word used for the serpent) endued with understanding, skilful as we can see in the work of gold, silver, brass, stone and timber. But he was also credited with certain tools, which could pierce stone. Stone, as I show in Gnosis is symbolic of wisdom and foundation. Hirams tool therefore pierced the veil or even the very root of wisdom. According to the book of Kings the Temple was built of stone (or wisdom) before it was brought to the site. Something like a prefabricated building. It was said by tradition that neither hammer nor axe, nor any tool of iron was used in the building. So how was it built? This in itself is a paradox, which can only be answered by the true secret of the Temple being revealed. According to Rabbinical teaching the prefabrication of the Temple was performed by the Shamir, a giant worm or serpent that could cut stones (incidentally worm means serpent). Not dissimilar to Norse and Celtic beliefs where Valhalla and Camelot were built with the fire of the dragon and in China where building is aided by the serpent energy. This is a universal concept as can be seen in India, where it was the serpentine linked Nagas of fable who escaped their country and took the architectural wisdom abroad. The architect gods, such as Thoth of Egypt, are linked strongly with the serpent wisdom because they are linked with the building of Temples of Wisdom inside our SELVES. The Shamir, according to one legend had even been placed in the hands of the Prince of the Sea (Shamir by Wilhelm Bacher & Ludwig Blau), which of course is symbolic of the Prince of Wisdom. In essence what we really have here is the Temple of Wisdom being built by the serpent and that serpent is none other than that of, or similar to, the internal Kundalini, later to be developed into the Kabbalah. This is a psychological training manual; a method of self-improvement; a way for society to become One; a multi-layered method of getting closer to the deity which resides in each and everyone of us; a deity, that the ancients saw as being the same in each of us. The whole process repeats again and again throughout the Bible. The Temple is reduced (like the alchemical method) and is remade. Then again and again, until finally the Christ is the Temple which is reduced (killed) and then rises again for the last time. And now, according to the texts, we can all meet with this Christ and we can all have the knowledge. We just need to understand that the true Christ is all and in all. But this wasnt the end of the story… Philip Gardiner is the author of The Serpent Grail: The Truth Behind the Holy Grail, the Philosophers Stone and the Elixir of Life, Gnosis: The Secret of Solomons Temple Revealed, The Shining Ones: The Worlds Most Powerful Secret Society Revealed and Proof? Does God Exist? He is host of the Philip Gardiners Forbidden Knowledge Conference UK (FKCUK) and writes columns for various magazines. He also has his own radio programme in the United States and lectures on Tour with http://www.powerplaces.com For more information see http://www.philipgardiner.net Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Philip_Gardiner http://EzineArticles.com/?Gnosis:-The-Secret-of-Solomons-Temple-Revealed&id=75111 international loan lenders that gives out personal loans to carribbean people payday loans for savings account bad credit auto lenders no faxing savings account payday loans

Great Tips on How to Find Good Jobs

Saturday, May 17th, 2008

By Ispas Marin Finding a new job is an important activity you should carry on very carefully. This means that you should present yourself in a very serious, professional manner in order to convince the potential employer to hire you. In order to achieve your goal, you should follow some of these tips. The thing you should always do is to constantly pay attention to even the smallest, insignificant detail. Why? Because you will offer a professional image to the employer. Therefore, you should always check your cover letter for misspellings or grammar errors, provide the employer with the information he/she has requested, pay attention to the gender of the hiring person. Always double check all the information you are sending to the employer to make sure it doesnt contain any errors. Another tip is to use your common sense whenever you are applying for a job. Use a polite, but firm tone for your cover letter; check it for spelling and grammar errors. Make sure you have followed the employers instructions. Follow this tip even if you are applying for the job thorough email. Your resume is your mirror image in front of the employer. A good, professional resume will make the difference between getting the job and losing the job. Always remember that the resume is speaking for you so organise the resume in a logical, clear manner. You should provide as much work experience information as possible, although it doesnt relate to the job you want to get. The reason for this is the fact that any work experience is good, and diverse areas of expertise show you are not afraid to accept new challenges. Ah, and remember to use a simple font, lose any embroideries. Keep things simple and professional. Another tip you should take into consideration is to pay attention to the hiring person. Always address you application to the hiring person and make sure you have included the name and the position of that person. Some Human Resources managers like to see their name next to their position, so theres no harm in tickling their ego a bit! Hiring persons are busy people so remember to make things easy for them. This means to write your name and the name resume in big letters so that they will know what they are dealing with. And here is a universal tip that applies to any situation: keep things professional. Give up your cute, funny email address and use a more serious one to be taken serious by a potential employer. Give contact details and make sure you can be reached easily: provide a mobile phone number, get an answer machine or a voice mail. Remember to have confidence in your abilities and to offer a professional image of yourself. Good luck hunting a new job! At http://www.hispanic-jobs.com we provide you with one central place to do all of your online recruiting to find bilingual/Spanish speaking individuals from all over the world. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ispas_Marin http://EzineArticles.com/?Great-Tips-on-How-to-Find-Good-Jobs&id=89675 poor credit and need a loan best personal loan texas payday laws do pay day loan advance companies report to credit bureau

Get Inspired About Your Career

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

By Richard Hanes Get Inspired about Your Career Do you linger in bed long after your alarm goes off on work mornings? Do you dread Sunday nights because they lead to Monday mornings? Do you watch the clock and wonder if the day will ever end? Do you look outside your workplace and ask, Is there more to life than just this job? If you suffer from any of these symptoms, it is time for you to create a new career! In her CD book, Advanced Energy Anatomy, Carolyn Myss, Ph.D. lays out a seven-step process for bringing an idea to physical creation. Heres that seven-step process applied to creating a new career inspiration. 1. Get Inspired. Inspiration comes from the Latin words that mean, to breathe in. To infuse your career creation with life, passion, and excitement, ask yourself, * What would I do if money were not an object? * What did I love to do as a child but left behind? * What activity do I do so intently that I dont notice time passing? * Am I interested in turning down the road not taken at a past career fork in the road? Dig deeply, dont censor your answers and write each inspiration on a separate piece of paper. 2. What Do You Think? Run each of your inspirations through your head! Ask, * Can I see myself doing this? * Does it make sense? * Do I think I can do it? * Am I willing to think about it? Be honest in answering these questions, and record your answers on each ideas page. Rule out the inspirations that dont survive here. 3. What About Your Will? Run each of the surviving ideas through your will! Your will houses your mental capabilities for choosing, intending, wishing and desiring. Ask yourself, * Will I be able to do this? * Am I able to communicate it? * Am I able to make the right choices and decisions to do this? Again, write down your answers for each idea. Narrow your list of ideas once more to the ones you believe youll be able to do, communicate or make the right choices for. 4. What Do You Feel? Run your survivors through your heart! Ask yourself, * How do I feel about this? * Does it feel right to me? * Can I follow my heart on these inspirations? Write the answers to these questions for each idea; rule out the ones your heart isnt into. Heres where the going gets tough. The first four steps are energetic. Theyre ephemeral, they dont affect your physical life, and theyre cheap and easy. The next three steps involve assessing your surviving career ideas in the physical world. 5. What Will Others Think? Run your surviving inspirations through your self-esteem. Ask yourself, * Can I endure criticism for this choice? * Will others think Im foolish? * What if others laugh at me? Write your answers for each of the surviving ideas and go to the next step. 6. Can I Afford It? Run your surviving inspirations through your financial life. Ask yourself, * What will it cost to change? * Can I live on what I could make in this new career? * Can I learn to live with less? Record your answers and go to the next step. 7. Am I Willing to Deal With My Fears? What, you have no career ideas or inspirations that survived? Congratulations, you have met your fears! Relax, youre not alone! Its important that your mind, will and heart are all aligned, or youll run into problems. Careers your mind likes but your heart doesnt will be short-lived. Careers your heart might like dont even get consideration if your mind allows its fears to stop you dead in your tracks. Your will doesnt have clear direction if your head and heart arent aligned. Run each of your inspirations through your mind, will and heart. Release those inspirations that dont have energy in all three of your mind, will and heart. You wont have enough energy to try them effectively. Hold onto the inspirations for which your mind, will and heart are aligned. Run those inspirations through your self-esteem. Ask yourself, * Do I have the guts to pull off this career change, even if others disapprove? * Can I grow up and not need others approval to change? * Am I willing to change my social group to pursue this new career? Now that youre feeling bold and independent, run the ideas that survived through your financial screen again. Weigh your desire for a career that satisfies you with your need to remain unchanged economically. Ask yourself these tough questions: * What economic changes must I make in order for this career to be feasible? * Would living more simply (read: less expensively) feel better if I felt better about my career? * What expenses that help me cope with my current career wont be necessary if I change? * Whats more important — feeling good about myself or having things? Finally, take the hardy career inspirations that remain and ask, * Can I see myself putting this inspiration into practice? * Am I ready to birth this career inspiration into the world? * Am I ready to share the energy of my career idea with the world? Shake the tree of your fertile imagination and see what career inspiration falls from it. Some ideas are ripe for picking; others need a bit more time on the tree to ripen. Hold onto those inspirations that didnt survive youll want to review them when you change careers next time! Copyright 2005 Fruition Coaching, All Rights Reserved. Rick Hanes is a life and career coach, writer, outdoorsman, gardener and tireless advocate for living life with purpose and passion. He founded Fruition Coaching in 2004 to lead the fight against leading lives of quiet desperation. Check his website at http://www.fruitioncoaching.com/ to contact him about rekindling the fire of your life! Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Richard_Hanes http://EzineArticles.com/?Get-Inspired-About-Your-Career&id=23004 fast cash with bad credi va personal loans bad credit car loan gardena car loans online

Stylish and Inexpensive Favors for Las Vegas Weddings

Friday, May 9th, 2008

By Renae Judkins A popular part of Las Vegas Weddings is the reception that immediately follows the wedding ceremony. A reception is a great way to celebrate the union of two people and have a great time as they begin their lives together. One of the things a lot of wedding guests look forward to is the favor that they receive at the reception. This favor is a token of appreciation from the bride and groom and is often something that can be saved as a special memory from that day. Choosing wedding favors doesnt need to be difficult or expensive. There are many small items that make great favors and there are also many items that can be homemade without spending a lot of money. Knowing how to pick the best favors can save you a lot of time and money so you can enjoy your wedding. Capturing Memories from Las Vegas Weddings Many guests enjoy taking pictures at wedding receptions, so a great wedding favor can be a throwaway camera and a small photo album. The camera can be used to capture candid moments from the reception and the album can protect those treasured snapshots for years to come. You can get disposable cameras in packs of 2 or 4 to save money and many dollar stores carry photo albums of surprisingly good quality. This is a great way to save money and give guests a great favor. Pairing Favors at Las Vegas Weddings You can remind your guests of your union long after your wedding reception is over by choosing a wedding favor that is a pair of something. You can choose salt and pepper shakers, pairs of wine glasses, and other gifts that come in sets of two. This gives your guests something they will use for years to come that will remind them of your wedding and all of the fun that was had at your reception. Custom Food & Beverage Favors for Las Vegas Weddings If you want a customized wedding favor, you can choose food and beverages that have your names and wedding date on them. Candy bars, individual bags of coffee and tea, and other food items can have your custom information printed on the wrappers. You can select from an assortment of flavors so that picky eaters will be able to find something they like. Custom Jar Candles Jar candles are a great wedding favor because theyre something that guests can take home and use again and again. The label on each candle can be customized with your names and wedding date to remind guests of your special day. Once the candles have been used, your guests can wash the jars and continue using them. This is a great favor because its something guests can continue to use long after your reception and because you can choose from a wide variety of colors and scents. Picking great favors doesnt have to be too difficult or expensive. Choose something that appeals to a wide audience and your guests will be sure to appreciate your thoughtfulness. All Las Vegas weddings should have the best Las Vegas wedding invitations. Go to http://www.vegaswedlockinvitations.com for the best Las Vegas wedding invitations. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Renae_Judkins http://EzineArticles.com/?Stylish-and-Inexpensive-Favors-for-Las-Vegas-Weddings&id=475729 paycheck witholding walmart payday card payday loans 1 hour bad credit auto loan bay area

Lighted Holiday Potpourri Jars

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

By Rachel Paxton Lighted potpourri jars are a festive addition to any holiday decor. They are inexpensive, easy to make, and make great hostess gifts. SUPPLIES: 1 package Christmas lights (20-bulb strand) Wide-mouth canning jar Potpourri Holiday ribbon Pinecones, small holiday decorations Doily or holiday fabric cut to fit over the mouth of the canning jar Glue gun DIRECTIONS: Plug in light strand and see if any bulbs are burned out and need to be replaced. Arrange light strand and potpourri in canning jar while lights are on so you’ll be able to get it just right and be able to see what it will look like when it’s finished. Place doily or fabric on top of jar, arranging the cord of the light strand so it’s coming out where you want the back to be. Tie some ribbon around the neck of the jar to hold the fabric in place. When you get it arranged the way you like it, use the hot glue gun to glue the fabric and ribbon down in several places so it will hold. Decorate the outside of the jar with festive decorations like pine cones or artificial holly berries. Craft stores have a variety of holiday decorations you can cut apart and re-arrange any way you like. Experiment with different potpourri scents. The lights in the jar will warm up the potpourri and help the scent fill the room. These jars are very pretty and will look different depending on if you use clear or colored lights. These are great for last-minute present ideas or hostess gifts. Happy holidays! Photo of finished project: http://www.crafty-moms.com/articles/112902a.shtml Rachel Paxton is a freelance writer and mom of four. For scrapbooking, card making, gift-giving ideas, and more family memory-making activities, visit http://www.crafty-moms.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Rachel_Paxton http://EzineArticles.com/?Lighted-Holiday-Potpourri-Jars&id=57301 no cost credit report free credit report commercial song lyrics fixed rate home equity line of credit find my credit score